About Claudia Corrigan D’Arcy

Professional Rabble Rouser and Online Activist

Claudia Corrigan D’Arcy has been online and involved in the adoption community since early in 2001. She originally began independently researching adoption issues in preparation of the successful search and reunion with her own son, Max, whom was placed for adoption in 1987.

Growing Online as a Birthmother

From humble beginnings on the now defunct Adoption Cafe and MSN Group Adoption Message boards, her knowledge of adoption and the internet grew together. From forums, to blogs, to the rise in social networking, Claudia has continued to see the internet as a powerful tool that allows isolated communities to find each other and, most importantly, find their voices and be heard. She has become a forerunner in the use of social networking for the online adoption community.

Musings of the Lame has become a much needed road map for many mothers who relinquished, adoptees who long to be heard, and adoptive parents who seek understanding.

Since becoming active, Claudia also initiated a search for her son adopted at birth. She later found and contacted Max directly through MySpace in 2005, long before Facebook became the adoption search tool of choice. After almost 2 years of contact, they met for the first time in March ’07. All four of her children were reunited later the same year. In 2021, now in his 30’s, Max returned to her home to live full time.

Besides here on Musings of the Lame, her writings on adoption issue have been published in The New York Times, BlogHer, Divine Caroline, Adoption Today Magazine, Adoption Constellation Magazine, Adopt-a-tude.com, Lost Mothers, Grown in my Heart, Adoption Voice Magazine, and many others. She was a member of the Land of a Gazillion Adoptees team and serves on the board of directors of the Adoptee Rights Coalition.

She has been interviewed by Dan Rather, Montel Williams and appeared on Huffington Post regarding adoption as well as presented at various adoption conferences, other radio and print interviews over the years. She authored a piece for The New York Times’s parenting blog, becoming the first birthmother published on the Motherlode and has been interviewed for TIME MAGAZINE’s T he Baby Brokers: Inside America’s Murky Private-Adoption Industry. In 2019, she was invited to the White House to a Domestic Policy Council meeting regarding International Adoption and then later that year, Claudia presented at the US Department of State’s International Adoption Symposium.

Professionally, her work with the adoption community lead her to a career as a corporate blogger and SEO copywriter. Her writings have been published under many pen names. She is the former the Director of Social Media at DragonSearch, an internet marketing firm in the Hudson Valley. Claudia is currently employed as the Associate Executive Director of Communications at the Adoptive and Foster Family Coalition of New York. Along with spearheading the annual New York State Foster Care and Adoption Confernce every year since 2017, her work at the Coalition has also led her to testify for the successful passage of Adoptee Rights legislation in New York, Vermont and Massachusetts.

Freshly divorced (October 5, 2022!) from the horrible no good abusive lying cheating narcissistic baby man ( AKA Rye/Michael/ Asshole), she resides in New York’s Hudson Valley with ALL her four children, four cats, five chickens and all to many fish. In her spare time, she likes to take angry long walks while listen to loud music and throwing glitter. She also gardens, knits badly and paints. She can often be found pretending she is at a NYC club in the 80’s and joyfully dancing in her garage.