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Adoption is NOT a State of Mind!!

Annual Birthmother / Adopted Child Birthday Blues Today is the last day of the “Max’s Birthday Week..let me live in the past..thank you”. Unfortunately, it is now piggybacking on real PMS and, as always, Thanksgiving blues. Coupled with Holiday Blues Thanksgiving always makes me miss my own mother really, really bad. It is not uncommon for me to be cooking the brussel sprouts or stuffing from her handwritten recipe book…


Drowning Sterotypes with a Cup of Tea

So Thursday afternoon I sat at my kitchen table for about 2 hours and babbled on about adoption as I do with Jesse Smith, the Ulster Publishing reporter. It was actually quite enjoyable..Jesse being a cool mellow guy that he is..and, well, I am aways pretty happy talking about adoption. Anyhoo, he seemed pretty excited about it all, was going to do some more research, was happy it was a…


No good news still for Stephanie and Evelyn Bennett

As you will, I am sure recall, back in April,OUSA had a pretty successful Blogger Blitz for Stephanie Bennett. It was great because over 100 bloggers took part, but kinda didn’t do what we needed as main steam media STILL is ignoring the travisty of justice being done to that poor Ohio family. And it still continues. In April of 2007, Stephanie had a hearing in the Probate Court, and…


Catching up….

Now that life has settled down a bit…just a bit really…I thought it was maybe time to get some stuff out here. The other really cool thing that happened on this past Sunday is that I was elected back to the Board of Directors at Origins USA. And while I know I have spoken of OUSA before….I think it is time for a new plug for with a newly elected…


So I Really HAVE been busy!

Yes, I breath still. It’s been a long summer, but so worth it. I don’t even know where to begin. It’s hard to even imagine that I haven’t written a dern thing since May! June I hid….really. That was my time of painting lawn chairs, moving around the bluestone patio, etc. I really treid to force adoption out of my brain..and when I did think about it..which I did…I just…


Breaking down….

I have not broken my fingers or fallen into a well. For some weird reason..and looking abck this has happened every once in a while..I just lack the desire to be here. Part of me thinks that I am just scared. I have a lot on my plate and NIARA as the possible small potential to be huge..but it is huge and I have to put myself out there in…



How to Get MA Relinquishment Consent Forms

 The Commonwealth of Massachusetts Law Adoption Records Laws This is going out in the mail tomorrow!!! Oh a big fat juicy kiss goes out to Brandi… because she asked me a question on “contracts” in adoption relinquishment and go me working and digging on this… February 22, 2007 Amy XXXXXX Executive Director etc. Dear Amy, If you can recall when you called me on the phone at my home on my son, Max’s, 18th birthday, I…


Stars out of alignment…

It’s a bad time for us Tauruses. I mean, something is out of wack in the universe and I am really feeling it. Either that or 2007 is gonna be a doozie of a year. But I would rather chalk it up to a misalignment of planets. A few other of my Taurian counterparts have also suggested to me some bad emotional woes, so I know I am not alone….


Montel is on Monday!!

So much for advanced notice! Here’s the linky: And remember…keep a look out for the absolute horror I was trying to hide when he freaks out and is sitting next to me going off on “where can I get a baby!” I beleive it might be funny. and then tell him …write the letters..how insane he acted!!


The Utah Maternity Home Escape

I contacted the reporter of this story: Families of pregnant runaways worried NATALIE ANDREWS – Daily Herald A week ago, three pregnant teens allegedly hit a 53-year-old woman with a frying pan, tied her up with electrical cords and ran away with her SUV, credit card and cell phone. Still on the run, the girls’ running away from the New Hope Maternity Home on Jan. 16 has become fodder for…


Help needed for Stephanie and Evelyn Bennett

I am passing the following on as help is desperatly needed. Please feel free to pass this on to whatever blogs, lists, forums, etc…a flood of letters is very necessary. ************************ I really need help! The Bennett family desperately needs letters be written, preferably snail mail, if at all possible, and emails if nothing else. I am attaching addresses below, and I will bring you up to speed as much…


New York State and 95-10 Initiative crap

Essay in Rochester, NY local paper about the 95-10 Initiative (NYS) ——————————————————————————– From this morning’s Rochester Democrat and Chronicle. Urge Abstinence, Adoptions (January 22, 2007) — Many analysts believe that despite the pro-choice gains netted by the Democratic Party in the 2006 election, that the election outcome was more a statement about our country’s dissatisfaction with the Iraq war than a referendum on abortion. Still, not one Democratic incumbent who…


Table 18…adoptive parents only please.

So I am at work last night..and our hostess had a great book called “The Choices We Made”. It’s the stories of famous people who had abortions, faced an unplanned pregnancy, etc. We were taking turns reading about Whoopie Goldberg. So this of course, lead to us discussing adoption, and Raisa and I are in the middle of a discussion on how these people who claim “just give the baby…