Tomorrow, I shall get up at the crack of dawn. I have my choice of buses to get on.. 6, 6:15 or 6:30, the latter being the last one I can get on and be in NYC on time. By 9:00 am, I shall be sitting in a meeting with other like minded ones…discussing the EBD Open Records paper that garnished so much media attention and trying to come up…
sniff… My second baby, Garin, .. who is 16 and taller than me.. lives for his band. They actually do NOT suck which is amazing. I can totally recall beING a girlfriend of a band member many times in my younger years and hating “band practice’ as they DID suck. Sitting through hours of torture, just waiting for the end, it sucked being a groupie. These kids do not torture…
I was watching Brad Pitt last night being interviewed by Larry King live in New Orleans. Only for a minute really, since it got really painful. I mean, Brad is real purty like, and I think he means well, but he doesn’t seem to do so great when someone has not written his lines for him. Or he was stoned..lol. Anyhoo, aside from him hanging out with Angelina and thier…
Message from Ethica Dear Ethica Supporter: Ethica has submitted comments on the U.S. Citizen and Immigration Services (USCIS) new administrative procedures for the ratification of the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoption. The USCIS comment period ends this Monday. We encourage adoption community members to contribute their thoughts on these procedures which can greatly influence the way adoptions are conducted. Ethica’s comments can be downloaded here: http://www.ethicanet.org/DHS_RegComments.pdf Your own comments…
I really do not care that you think that I am overstepping my boundries. I personally feel that people who are so desperae for a baby that they troll on message boards and try to exploit women in vunerable circumstances to be predatory and unethical. Pre birth contact is considered coersive.
Of course, you would like to adopt her twins. And while I am sure that it sucks for you to be infertile, my sympathy really ends there. Sometimes in life you do not get what you want. I do not have to think of people like you.. my job is to think about moms who CAN be good mothers, who need help facing a crisis prenancy and perhaps just someone to tell them the truth.
The National Council for Adoption usually has something to say about any adoption issue. One would think they should just based on their name. After all “National Council” makes it sound as if an official governmental appointment was made. That they are the official US stance, made after long thought out meetings by a Council, on all things related to adoption. Alas, that is just a well thought out play on the name made to make one think that is what they are.
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE NOVEMBER, 27, 2007 Bernadette Wright, Ph.D., President of Origins-USA will be speaking be on two upcoming radio shows. Her interview on The Adoption Show with Michelle Edmonds (www.theadoptionshow.com) will air in early December, date to be determined. Topics discussed include Origins-USA’s study on the effects of relinquishments on mothers’ lives, the nature and extent of adoption coercion, and what has changes and what has stayed the same…
In the midst of the conversation, we touched upon that just bad feeling that we both have, that we in a certain way, did this to ourselves. Though she was up here at the time, and I on LI and in NYC, being the same age, getting pregnant at the same time, having boys 5 days apart, it was the same time frame and the same social order that we experienced. The greatest difference is that I went the agency route and she fell in with a private lawyer/ private adoption. And as she said “I did this.. I found them”.
“So did I. I called my agency. I sent myself away”
There is one odd perk of being a blogger that I have noticed lately…people email about all sorts of stuff. I guess I am being asked to endorse or whatever about what it is that they are pitching. Who knows, maybe we all get them and I actually pay attention, but I read ’em. I mean hey, you never really know who is emailing.. today it was Northeast Public Radio..so…
Getting Ready to See August Rush I don’t have to say again how loopy excited I was to go see this film. Hoped for by the adoption truth lovers as THE film to get get people to understand some of the complexities of adoption separation, I ignored the fact that I spent the majority of the previous 56 hours in bed with a flu and bounced out the door. Bonnie…
Pearl S. Buck Uses the Term Birth Mother in 1956 The first known use of the word “birth” as a descriptive and identifiable adjective for a woman who has lost her child to adoption is attributed to Pearl S. Buck in 1956. In the June issue of Women’s Home Companion, Buck wrote a piece called “We Can Free the Children”. Buck, clearly talking about unwed mothers and the feelings of society…
I’m going to the mooovviessss! Ok so I say that in a sad sing song way because I never get to the movies anymore, but I just got to go to this one! Getting Ready to See August Rush So we already had plans..we, as in Bonnie my mom friend who lives a parallel life to me..but we had said next week…i don’t care that I am still flashing fever,…
I don’t usually get too upset over other people’s inane commentary. OK, that’s a bit of a lie, but for the most part, I expect stupidity when I dare to read “regular” folk saying things about adoption. And, I have to admit, it seems like lately, things are a bit better…it’s that hope thing again, I was really looking forward to seeing what the New York Times had for their…
But before I give the linky, yeah there are some things that are a bit off. Not enough to freak out really.. Like Rye was annoyed that they call me “Corrigan” alot, but Ido not care about that. I feel bad that they say Origins-USA operates the data base to search…which is way off and not true. Obviously, we are referring to the ISRR here, but they don’t mention that…
Donaldson Institute Releases Study on Adoptee Rights Ok so, as you all MUST know by now, the Evan B. Donaldson Report for this November, FOR THE RECORDS: RESTORING A RIGHT TO ADULT ADOPTEES, is making the waves. So adding in today.. we have A NPR show which is available to hear now.. and then the NPR Blog of the Nation. Now, many many familier names have added their 2 cents, but there…