Musings of the Lame; An Adoption Blog

Well, that was interesting…

Yeah…I just did it. Like just…as in I am still out of breath from running back up the stairs. I just informed Scarlett and Tristan about Max. No premable, no planning, and no book. Inspired by Suz’s, I suddenly just had the urge. And I resisted for about 10 minutes. And we are hanging out, sitting on the kitchen floor, in front of the dishwasher, drawing on the MagnaDoodle. And…


Slow…

Slow day, it seems. Where is everyone? What, you have a real life?? The nerve of you all. Fine, since you are not here, I will entertain myself with the writing about the two new hot crazes that have taken over my house. Tristan, as well as having a cheese “issue” read obsession, has a similar attraction to Sponge Bob. This has made the yellow one been an importnat part…


Who is United States Senator Mary L. Landrieu?

About the senator mentioned: Senator Landrieu has become a nationally recognized advocate for domestic and international adoption. As the Senate Democratic Co-Chair of the Congressional Coalition on Adoption, she believes Congress has the power to assist state and local efforts to improve foster care and promote adoption. She was a co-sponsor of the Safe and Stable Families Act, which removes barriers to children finding permanent homes and puts in place…


NY Times Article this AM

Kudos to my real life friend KT who sent this to me. What a blessing it is to have friends that support one’s obsessions. Ah…so even the NY Times sees a problem with the way things are done! Nice long article…quote Eric Smith!! Interesting abut the national Proud Daddy bill. I didn’t know that one. Some one else to add to my send letters to list. “Senator Mary L. Landrieu,…


huh.

I was so happy last week when I broke 5000 views. Less than 5 days later, I have hit 6000. wow. I thought it would go today, but it hit before I even woke up. There are ten people reading right now. Well, nine besides me. Buggy. And who are you from Statin Island??? I need to know?? Delurk, delurk!! Oh, and Happy St. Patricks Day to all! It’s also…


Nothing much

Maybe I am just tired. Did I poop my self out? I feel brain dead right now. Rye and I just got in a really stupid fight about..tada..leaving lights on in the house. He came home from work..( read grumpy..hates his job) and garin and I were cuddling on the couch with the dog watching ER. So he went about the house switching off the lights in a grump, mutter…


The Halls of Legislators…

…are wall to wall Carerra Marble. On Tuesdays, which is Lobby day in New York, they all filled with various groups of people wearing matching buttons and T-shirts, carrying bags of information and itineraries with appointments. School children with assignments travel in packs and make loud noises that may or may not be shushed. Lots of “suits” and women with heels that clang on the marble, gather in groups to…


Getting my Albany facts together!

I stand before you today as a New York woman born and bred. From the South Shores of Long Island, to the depths of New York City, to the green of the Hudson Valley, I am more of a patriot to New York, then America. I am also a mother to four children, one of whom I did not raise. I let him slip away to adoption in the fall…



So Sad….

I have this habit of typing in adoption and then asking Blogger to search all Blogs. It is interesting what comes up sometimes..the various Bloggers who do not have Adoptio Blogs per say, but have something to say about adoption. So in doing this, I found a blog..more “political” one could say…that was written by an adoptee who spoke of having to find his natural mother. Nice story. So I…


Where I become a Lobbyist

Tomorrow, I have a very busy day. I am going to NY State capital of Albany to Lobby for open records. There is a nice petition and web sight about the NY fight here. I have never lobbyed before, so I have basically NO CLUE what I am doing, but I am still really excited to do it. Thank God, I am going with “pros’ I have printed out business…


TAKE THIS POLL!!

OK…so I am at it again. I finially found a good onlne poll place..or so it seems…so far. You can take the poll here. And I think they tally it up, etc. I think you can take it here..but I don’t know if it registers there?? Then they say all this other stuf, but I can’t get they dern links to work!! If anyone sees any obviously bad typos, or…


Kids love a Parade…

Fullfilled “Good Mommy” duties today! Here we are walking to the Parade. Very convienient that it is like three blocks away. _______________ Here’s when you say, Man, how cute are these kids?? The, were even more thirilled that for whatever reason, in every parade in town, they throw candy to parade watchers. I don;t know what that is ll about, but it’s like another Halloween!! __________________ Yeah, we all had…


A shamless plug..

For adoption related stress relief…go here!. This lovley little ditty is done by a really swell guy I work with..Hi Matt!!! and besides his lovely wife, Maya..and son to be born son in utero..keep my in chocolate!! Yum!!! yeah, she happens to be a FABULOUS pastry chef. Plus I can Almost tolerate the ignoranus ( spelt that way with a purpose!!)IF he is wearing his mothers wig!! so go have…


More deep thinking…

God, I adore this woman. Sunny has great things to say and a grat real, raw way of saying it..with compassion, with heart, with kindness, but still with real anger that makes sense. Go read her now!! Also, a very good article that should also be looked at and thought about. Also, while I am at linkys today…a poll of natural moms…over 70% are opting to “not relinqish” if they…