I have this habit of typing in adoption and then asking Blogger to search all Blogs. It is interesting what comes up sometimes..the various Bloggers who do not have Adoptio Blogs per say, but have something to say about adoption.
So in doing this, I found a blog..more “political” one could say…that was written by an adoptee who spoke of having to find his natural mother. Nice story. So I commented for the pure reason that he is under the impression that reuinion should only happen under mutual consent agreements..aka both searching. I mean the poor woman looked for 17 years for him. He looked for 2 hours. If registries were better done if records were open, then he could have known that she was intersted alot sooner and according to him..he wishes he would have looked sooner.
ANd he said something about Moms “moving on”. Sorry, I am not one to let this misconceptions that are breed by the industry keep the records sealed. That’s what all these fights at capital bulidings are all about. Yeah, so I commented.
And opened a can of worms.
God I do hate it when poeple don’t “get it” at all. I am continually surprised when someone can read here and seem to be able to continue to view things with such a lack of compassion, and/or only see one aspect and dwell on that one negative thing they are focusing on. Truthfully, it hurts.
I feel angry and would lash out as such..so I will just walk away from the computer right now. Besides I have to go meet an woman and ohh at the paint colors I selected for her house and hold her hand and tell her to keep painting. I need something simple and brainless right now.
Where’s my lipstick?