The Utah Maternity Home Escape

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Families of pregnant runaways worried
NATALIE ANDREWS – Daily Herald

A week ago, three pregnant teens allegedly hit a 53-year-old woman with a frying pan, tied her up with electrical cords and ran away with her SUV, credit card and cell phone.

Still on the run, the girls’ running away from the New Hope Maternity Home on Jan. 16 has become fodder for pro-choice bloggers and made headlines from the United Kingdom to Oregon, especially in the girls’ home states of California, Texas and Illinois. Two of the girls are 15, one is 16.

The 16-year-old’s mother, Gina Castro of Chicago, is frantic for news of her daughter.

“I’m not getting any information at all from anybody, I’m scared to death for her life. My daughter’s in more trouble now than she was before,” Castro said. She said that until Monday the police hadn’t called her about the alleged assault. She now believes her daughter is in California but can’t get any confirmation.

American Fork Police Chief Lance Call said that they were talking to the families through Jana Moody, the caretaker of New Hope, who the girls allegedly bound and assaulted. Police had not talked to the families about their missing daughters.

He said that girls’ warrants were updated Monday to reflect a kidnapping charge because they bound Moody and another pregnant 17-year-old in the New Hope Program. They are also wanted on charges of aggravated assault, stealing a vehicle and using the stolen credit card.

Call said police are watching for use of the stolen credit card and checkbook. After a week, the only expense the girls have had on the card was for fuel at an American Fork gas station.

If they don’t use that, Call said that the girls could be difficult to find.

“It’s possible, if they’ve gotten rid of that van, and they are keeping their heads down, in other words not attracting attention to themselves, it’s possible they could be gone for awhile,” he said.

But they can’t hide forever. These girls have babies on the way, and babies don’t wait for warrants to be served or charges to be filed. Call said that if police pulled them over for anything, the warrants would appear in the National Crime Information Center, and they would be arrested.

Moody was in charge of calling the girls’ parents and telling them what happened. Call said not contacting the parents immediately was out of concern, to not overwhelm the families.

“Some people get very intimidated in talking to a police officer directly,” Call said. “If we can just keep this as cooperative as we can, we’ll be in a lot better shape for everyone.”

Co-director of the home, Spencer Moody, told the Associated Press after the attack that they would be shutting down the home, despite having dozens of girls stay there without problems. American Fork police Sgt. Shauna Greening said that in the three years the home has been licensed, this was the first problem.

Castro said that her daughter has called her aunt, in northern California, and her boyfriend — who is also the baby’s father — but even that was a few days ago. She has not called her.

“I’ve been trying to find out some information too, but I can’t find anything out,” said the boyfriend, Carlos Rivera of Chicago. He said he was worried for his girlfriend and his unborn child’s safety.

“I haven’t talked to her for four days, so I don’t know what’s going on,” he said.

The girls have been missing for seven days. He said he didn’t know where the girls were, though last time they talked, they were going to California.

Castro suspects that her daughter didn’t want to give her baby up for adoption, when friends and family members were telling her to. It may be one of the reasons why the girls decided to run.

The New Hope Maternity Home Web site says that the program houses the girls for the term of their pregnancies and two months afterward. It provides both parenting classes and counseling for girls who choose adoption.

Castro said she knew her 16-year-old daughter didn’t like being at New Hope. Far away from her friends and boyfriend, the girl didn’t like not being able call or e-mail them. That’s what her mother wanted, originally.

“That was my whole plan, trying to get her away from the whole elements in Chicago, going through a teen intervention program,” Castro said. “Now she’s in a worst position when she started.”

Wrote her this email:

Dear Ms. Andrews,

I wanted to thank you for your recent coverage of the three pregnant teenage girls who have run away from the maternity home. As a member of the adoption community, the girls story has sparked much interest. So far, your recent article is the only one that actually looks into the possible “why” of the girls departure. It seems the general public is very willing to find fault with what these girls did, but no one is questioning why they were driven to such desperate acts.

Being held against your will at a maternity home is not much fun. Separated from friends and family at a vulnerable time in ones life, being forced to go there by such friends and family with the knowledge that the future only holds the forced separation from one’s baby can be like a death sentence. No one will help you. No one cares about what you want.

Well intended parents of young woman are wrongly informed on how adoption is a great solution for their families often not understanding that they are creating a vast wound that their daughters will carry for life. Various scientific studies have shown that infant relinquishment causes life altering effects including increased chances of secondary infertility, post traumatic stress disorder, difficulties with trust and relationship, parenting issues with later children, and long term continuous grief that has greater impact than the death of a loved one. Many in the adoption industry are aware of these studies but do not inform either the parents or the young women of these risks. Instead, they paint a happy picture of redemption of ones past digressions, and promote a false sense that these women will “get over” losing their babies. That’s what adoption counseling is all about; convincing woman that it is the best and only solution, meanwhile denying information and preventing the mothers to be from getting the help they need so they can parent successfully.

A much bigger story is here. The American people have been able to grasp the enormity of social abuses, cruelty of past adoption practices and the treatment of young women in maternity homes with the release of Ann Fessler’s “The Girls That Went Away”. The problem is that many people seem to think that “those days” are over. Even in the educated adoption community, people are shocked to hear that maternity homes such as New Hope still are in operation. With the current administration pledging more federal funding to go to maternity homes, the 95-10 Initiative promoting adoption as a solution to prevent abortion rates, and Infant Adoption Awareness Trainings, funded by the million by Congress, and going right to the profit making agencies to further market their business, we need someone who can tell the truth of the treatments and mental coercion that goes on at these homes.

Adoption is in great need of a major reform in this country before it becomes the solution to anything. As long as girls are kidnapped and held against their will, forced to relinquish their babies, and made to act out violent behaviors in order to protect their own humanity and off spring, there is great need for education and understanding of this seemingly well intentioned act. Such a great solution should not turn our young women into animals desperate to escape their fate.

I am providing several links to education areas on the internet should you wish to research this further. You may also feel free to contact me either by email of phone, ***etc

Thank you,

with links to OUSA, blogs, the donaldson paper, and SoA..and she emailed me back and is calling me tomorrow.

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Musings of the Lame was started in 2005 primarily as a simple blog recording the feelings of a birthmother as she struggled to understand how the act of relinquishing her first newborn so to adoption in 1987 continued to be a major force in her life. Built from the knowledge gained in the adoption community, it records the search for her son and the adoption reunion as it happened. Since then, it has grown as an adoption forum encompassing the complexity of the adoption industry, the fight to free her sons adoption records and the need for Adoptee Rights, and a growing community of other birthmothers, adoptive parents and adopted persons who are able to see that so much what we want to believe about adoption is wrong.

19 Comments on "The Utah Maternity Home Escape"

  1. Whoa….very nice, can’t wait to hear about the call…good work once again Claud…you are amazing and a credit to moms everywere

  2. Yes, good work for sure. Thank you for doing this.

  3. Claud, I would love it if you could refer her, as well, to some of us moms that “did time” in maternity homes. From what I have read about this one, it’s no different from the ones where we were incarcerated…just different semantics. It still comes down to warehousing breeders for the adoption industry.

  4. That’s a great email — obviously, because it got her attention. Way to go!!

    (I got to your blog via mutual bloggers that we have in common; not even sure who now because I’ve been a’surfin’ today).

  5. I had NO IDEA that the government was funding these maternity homes to the tune of millions of dollars. When I read Ann Fessler’s book, I had the feeling that the families paid the cost. It’s horrendous that the government would fund pushing adoption on unsuspecting girls and their families.

    It certainly looks like these girls were acting in self defense. It’s not like they splurged with the woman’s credit card. I hope the girls take care of each other, have their babies and are never found.

  6. Claud, great letter. Please post how your conversation with the reporter goes – hopefully it will spark her to investigate the homes and do a story on them.

  7. It was kinda odd…She seemed distracted and at first confused as to who I was. I ended up caling her as I had to go out and do stuff ( Scarlett’s birthday Pricess tea party is on Sunday) and I didn’t want to miss her call.

    She seemed interested…was typing though out the whole thing? I suppose, I hope, typing out what I was saying? I basically just expanded on my letter…more details..of course I cannot remember it all now. Reommended TGWWA, the research sites again on OUSA, the coercion tactics etc..that momst moms do not want to lose their kids, that we are not born that way, etc. That the industry exploits the natural fears and doubts that anyone has with a major event like birth, etc. The profit of the idusrty, etc.

    The one thing she did ask was one of the “well these kids are 15..so how can they have babies” at least allong those lines..and I was able to saty that young moms can be very good moms with support, but thinking that they were going to be “Ok” after losing their kids was just crap. That rality was that no matter how old, they were mothers and not breeders.

    I don’t know what she plans on doing with it, or anything. I did mention that I know many moms who had been in the same situations, Robin…she didn’t bite on that.So I realy do not know if it did any good..I guess on just has to keep checking that paper??

  8. Very well said and exactly how I’ve been feeling. I have been extremely concerned about these girls. It is my hope they have help and support and that when they are found they will be allowed to tell their sides of the story. I fear for them and their babies if and when they are found.

    I have written a blog addressing my concerns about the facility where they were staying. The director has had past affiliations with the World Wide Association of Specialty Programs and Schools (WWASPS). Please see the links below that will help explain my concerns.

    One more thing … I too called this reporter and she was typing as we spoke. I was under the impression she was interested in what I had to say and that she may do another piece on this. I didn’t see anything today. I have a website at http://www.caica.org where I post the news for anyone who is interested. If anyone who reads this had a negative experience at either New Beginnings Maternity in Kanab, UT, or in New Hope Maternity in American Fork, UT, I would love to hear from you at info@caica.org.

    Blog: http://missingteens.blogspot.com/

    Info re WWASPS:
    http://caica.org/NEWS%20WWASP%20Main.htm

    Isabelle Zehnder
    http://www.caica.org
    info@caica.org

  9. Great letter, Claud.

    I am relieved to hear that these mothers-to-be have been heard from since they escaped. I am very worried that they are stuck in a snowdrift somewhere and will die since the truck has not been noticed anywhere.

    But I worry also for them when they are found. Adoption relies on smearing real mothers to get babies and it’s going to be difficult for them to buck the well-greased system no matter how hard they might try, if they try. In a sane world, escaping from incarceration to save your babies (if that was actually their motive) is only regarded as more proof of the mothers’ unfitness, not evidence that adoption is wrong.

  10. Question…at what point do we worry that these girls met harm…maybe the story is not as it was told to police…has anyone actually heard from them?? I admit that I have not kept current on the story…

  11. Fantastic response, Claud! I hope the reporter that you talked to will give you coverage!

    And is it at all possible that these young expectant mothers could have the charges against them dropped so that they could find the resources to parent their children without further complications?

  12. Its unlikely the charges will be dropped. If the girls had run away from this unlocked facility without hitting someone with a frying pan, without tying them up, without stealing a car it would be different.

  13. “Its unlikely the charges will be dropped.”

    Most. One has already turned herself in, and no doubt they’ll all be rounded up sooner or later.

    “If the girls had run away from this unlocked facility without hitting someone with a frying pan,”

    Would you have preferred they’d used the more traditional poker or golf club? I rather like the idea of the frying pan myself. It has a certain Martha Stewart touch. “It’s a Good Thing.”

    “without tying them up, without stealing a car it would be different.”

    Among the things that would have been different is the fact that nobody’d have ever heard of them or their rebellion in the face of involuntary incarceration.
    And regardless of whether the facility was unlocked or not, they wouldn’t have got very far without taking the actions that they did. Dint of necessity, if they were to get away.

    This is a really sad story, and these girls should never have been subjected to this kind of misguided treatment in the first place.
    I’m very concerned for them and their soon-to-be children, and I hope someone who can make a difference has the decency to listen to them and take them seriously.

  14. Well, to Anon, who seems to be judging these mothers-to-be for using any means necessary to escape captivity and certain adoption for their babies: when is violence okay? What would you do to save your child if you have one? Probably much more than a whack with a frying pan…

  15. It is indeed a sad story and maternity homes should be relics of the past. The fact that this one was up and running came as a shocker.

    Stealing a car or a credit card in any other context would not be condoned. I can’t see making an exception here. Violence can be justified against others if it is necessary to defend one’s self. However, if the facility was unlocked the girls didn’t need to whack the manager with a frying pan and tie her up. They could have just chosen to walk out the door.

    BTW, I couldn’t condone murdering the people running the place either. That seems to be where the logic here is going.

  16. Claud, Had not heard this story. Wow. Had NO idea such maternity homes existed today, although, having lived and worked in Utah for four years some number of years ago, I am not surprised that one exists in “Mercan Fork” as the locals pronounce it. The letter you wrote was perfect.

  17. Claud,

    Just a suggestion. This really has the makings of a fantastic investigative report, it just has to get into the right hands. You may want to try contacting KUTV news in Salt Lake City which is NOT owned by the Mormon church as is KSL. Rod Decker is the oldest and most experienced reporter there. Maybe send him an email starting with the letter you wrote. I’d also copy the assignment editor on the assignment desk so if Decker takes a pass it stands a chance of getting to somebody else.

  18. I’m a 67 year old grandmother, and have been pro-choice since the fifties. This incident is just one more point for the pro-choice people to use. Maybe these girls wouldn’t have chosen that, but it could be a possibility. I didn’t even know there were still some of these homes in existance until this morning when I Googled the topic. It is outrageous that taxpayers are subsidizing them.

  19. Okay, so one of these three girls has turned herself in. But there has been nothing further in the news about them.

    I’m very worried, where are those other two girls?

    And I want to know why there isn’t an Amber Alert out for them!!!

    Who cares if they hit someone in the head, they are minors, they are runaways, they are far from home, and they need decent prenatal care.

    As for the girl in custody, I want to find out her story and I really want to find out that she’s at home with her own mother.

    But nothing, nothing at all is being reported.

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