There is a Reason for Everything…

….that I do.

Sometimes it only might make sense to me, but eh, I’m usually pretty open, so I explain.

I have offered and was accepted most openly to write for an multi author adoption blog. How can I say this most PC like.. it’s a bit more happy adoption then one might expect me to want to write for…but.. as I defended my reasoning to actively particiapte on Adoption.com years ago, I can confidenlty stand here now as well and say that my thoughts are sounhd and no.. I have not yet gone loco.

Yes, the name is..ehem..”Grown in my Heart” Now SHUT UP!

We can blame it on SEO really, but I realize that writing here in my own little world is still essentially preaching to the choir. And the people that should hear the important stuff.. well they might not come to the mountain..so the mountains got to go to Mohammed.

So off I go.
I’ll still be here..and all over the web.. but I’m going to be writing there too. It should be very interesting and I am actually looking forward to it.

About the Author

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Musings of the Lame was started in 2005 primarily as a simple blog recording the feelings of a birthmother as she struggled to understand how the act of relinquishing her first newborn so to adoption in 1987 continued to be a major force in her life. Built from the knowledge gained in the adoption community, it records the search for her son and the adoption reunion as it happened. Since then, it has grown as an adoption forum encompassing the complexity of the adoption industry, the fight to free her sons adoption records and the need for Adoptee Rights, and a growing community of other birthmothers, adoptive parents and adopted persons who are able to see that so much what we want to believe about adoption is wrong.

4 Comments on "There is a Reason for Everything…"

  1. I’m so glad you joined! As for the name… well… wider audience. So many will learn so much from you. I know that I do.

  2. I’m also glad you’ll be writing there. 🙂

  3. I am so sorry for what your going through. Your story broke my heart. I am one of those paterns who didn’t support her daughter when she got pregnant. I was more supportive than your family but not as much as I should have been. In the final moments before my daughter signed her rights away, I failed to stand up to people I knew were wrong. I have to live with that for the rest of my life. I can’t imagine that your paterns don’t see your pain now and feel bad for not being there for you. I hope one day they find the strength to tell you that they were wrong and they are sorry.I am so sorry for your loss to adoption.

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